Category Archives: Happiness

Saying no

Here’s a short list of things I’ve said no to in the last two weeks:

  • Joining Toastmasters
  • Joining a second developer book club
  • Joining a reading competition at the library
  • Taking a second class
  • Participating in an ongoing lean and agile forum

I’ve come to really enjoy doing things deliberately: focusing on a handful of things I really care about and enjoy.

By contrast, here are some thing I haven’t said no to:

  • Spending time with my wife cooking and playing video games
  • Spending an extra 20 hours a week on my side project
  • Taking an extra 2 hours to practice some problem sets to make sure I really understand the material in the one class that I am taking

Time is finite. Your attention is finite. Spend them both deliberately.